In life, we come across numbers of hurdels, problems, changes and much more circumstances which certainly breaks us from within. We feel like we have lost each and every hope of survival and we cant cope up with them anymore. They comes in several personifications: Financial conditions, emotional traumas or the most common of annoying people.
But according to me:
“Coming back in game is for a brave,
Staying in it, for survivor;
And winning it, for a warrior.”
Its totally upto us that what we crave and strive for.
Here are some of the tips that may help you in coping up with your daily problems.
1. Don’t think what they think.
Spinned? But yes. Dont give a thought to anybody’s saying. Half of them are jealous that you are doing something and other half is just fun-fully wanting to bring you down. Whenever, trust me whenever ever you need an expert advice give a self call.
Nothing can ever beat your intuition for your good.
And for this ellaboration I always think :
“Ab log kya sochenge, ye bhi hum sochenge toh log kya sochenge.”
2.Get the smart moves.
In today’s world, being naive is just not a good option. The more innocent you are,the more people will thrash you down just like the whole group of lion snatching over a single piece of flesh.
Just keep the one formula on :
Step 1: LISTEN
Step 2: ANALYSE
Step 3: FOCUS
Step 4: SPEAK
By this, you will never be narrated of a fool ever.
(Don’t over analyse. Its sucks.)
3. Accept that change is the only constant thing.
This the toughest among all.
Remember when we were kids, we were learning to walk, we fell several times bjt at last we started walking. Similarly is the path of life. We walk,fell and rise again. In between, many things changes and sometime changes so drastically that we even shatters us. But, no skilled sailor has grown on calm seas. Accoet the change, keep you head held high and move on.
–Niharika A. Jain